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December 23rd, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

Hi all,

I’ve been a little out of touch.  My laptop has developed some issues with connectivity, and for a while I couldn’t stay connected for more than a few minutes at a time.  In the end, I had to completely reformat my hard-drive and reinstall Windows.

I’m still in the process of loading software, and some of the more important stuff has gone missing at some point (Microsoft Office 2003 & Outlook – my email package).

So, in case you’re wondering where I am, that is it.  Of course, this doesn’t explain the long periods of time between blog posts.  That’s a different issue!

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December 17th, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

Scott and I have lived in our home for over 10 years now.  We’ve done a lot of remodeling in that time.  Floors, kitchen, walls.  We never had a house-warming, and we’ve really done very little entertaining.  Just once about 5 years ago, we invited a few friends over.  In the interim, we’ve hosted dinner a few times for people that one or the other of us were working with.  But nothing either of us really consider entertaining.

This is the year that changes.  We have decided to host a Christmas Party for some friends from church.  I decided that I would like to do some baking for this party.  On the menu would be my favorite, rum balls, and Russian tea cakes, and frosted cookies in the shape of stars and trees and bells and the like.

The rum balls were easy to make.  I made the dough on Thanksgiving morning, and that night, Scott and I stood shoulder to shoulder and rolled out the balls, dipped them in powdered sugar and hid them well.

The Russian tea cakes were a little more difficult.  I didn’t let the butter soften at room temperature, so it was a bit of a chore to mix it.  But, eventually that succeeded, and we have 3 dozen delicious cakes… I know: I’ve sampled them!

The cookies proved to be a bit more of a challenge!  Now, those who know me well, know I do not like to cook.  The concepts involved are just far too complex for me!  I can make a main course.  I can prepare a vegetable.  I can heat up biscuits and rolls.  But getting them all to be done at or about the same time is just rocket science when it comes to my abilities!

One of the problems I have with cooking… and it really becomes obvious when I try to make cookies from scratch… is the meanings of terms.  Lightly floured.  Roll until thin.  What’s thin?  Is paper thin too thin?  Is a quarter inch of cookie dough thin?  Or is it too thick?  And what should cookie dough look like to know if I’ve too much flour or too little in it?

Then there’s the preparation.

When we remodeled the kitchen, we put down tiled counter tops.  They’re very nice… but it’s difficult to roll out cookies on tile!  So, we hunted down a sheet of Plexiglas at our local Home Depot.  We wanted one of those old Tupperware pie thingies (that’s the technical term, I think) but can’t find them in the shops we visited.

We have a rolling pin.  So, we didn’t need to buy one of those.  It’s a nice one.  It’s set on an exposed shelf in our kitchen for nearly 10 years looking nice.  It’s never been used until I ground up the vanilla wafers for the rum balls.

Tuesday, the day came.  I gathered all my ingredients together, and started mixing them.  I sifted flour (did you know 3 cups of sifted flour is about the same as 1 and a half cups unsifted?)  Finally, I had a peanut butter consistency dough and put it in to the fridge to chill “for a few hours or overnight”.  By the time Scott got home from work, several hours would pass.  I wanted Scott to supervise the next stage… he knows what he’s doing!  But “Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy” was on TV and we watched that, first.  Then we watched a saved episode of CSI:Miami.  And then, it was time for bed!

Wednesday, I was gone from before 7 a.m. until nearly 8 p.m.  And I was totally exhausted.  So, no cookie rolling Wednesday.

This morning, I finally squared my shoulders, looked at the dough, and thought “Oh, how hard could this be, for cryin’ out loud!?”  I dusted the Plexiglas with a half cup unsifted flour.  Slick Plexiglas does not dust well!  I grabbed about half of the dough, plopped it down on the mound of flour, grabbed my marble rolling pin and rolled.

And that’s when I discovered that not all rolling pins are equal!  The dough stuck to the pin like peanut butter to the roof of a dog’s mouth!  And it clung there for dear life.  After peeling off the dough in great gooey gobs, I washed the pin, and looked at the dough.  I put my hands in to pull out a mass to try again, but it was like trying to get a handful of peanut butter.  It stuck to my fingers.  But just enough flour had adhered to the dough from the first attempt, I got the idea “Hey, maybe I didn’t put enough flour in the dough!  So I mixed some… a lot of some… flour in to the dough and kneaded it like a 2 year old with his play dough!

Then, I saw the parchment paper for the other item I intend to make, so I tried covering the dough with that and then rolling!  Success!  From there, I pulled out my new cookie cutters, and cut some santas (they came out looking like oh who knows? How does one describe those shapes?) and candy canes… another disaster shape.  I finally  discovered that stars, bells and trees were the easiest to make.  Each batch I rolled out got easier than the last, as each batch had more and more flour added to it.  I think I REALLY under-measured the flour when I made the dough.

Nikki got quite a bit of dough… my disasters ended up in her mouth.  Or mine.

But, I now have sugar cookies.

As I worked, images came to me of making cookies with Mom oh so long ago.  The wooden rolling pin.  The wooden surface she brought out for cookie making.  The consistency of the dough.  The next batch, should I decide to make them, should go so much more easily!

Now.  A question for my gentle reader.  Should I attempt that Buche de Noel?

December 02nd, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

Well, here’s something to add to the previous post.

As most of you know, last Spring, Scott enrolled to take college courses at UNO where he works.  He’s seeking to complete his bachelor’s degree, and plans to pursue graduate work in Archeology.  As an employee of the University, Scott gets a discount on his tuition and other expenses associated with his education.

When I got word at the dealership this a.m. about the brakes, I sent him a brief text message giving him the bad news.

So, just now I got a new text message from Scott.  He tells me HE has paid for the brake work.  It seems that even though he’s an employee, apparently the University made a mistake.  They listed him as a Non-Resident of Nebraska, and as anyone with knowledge of college expenses knows, that equates to higher tuition.

However, there is an agreement that give residents of Pottawattamie County, Iowa, the same tuition rates as a resident of Nebraska (I think a few other counties over here get that as well.)

The University admin has discovered their mistake, and are reimbursing him $800 for the summer semester!

Of course, that $800 pays for the brake work.  I find the coincidence of the timing rather interesting.  Discovered and remedied on the same day as unexpected expense.

Some might say that is not a miracle and that the timing is merely fortuitous.  But I have learned over 5 decades that it is precisely in the fortuitous that miracles are to be found.  Sure, every now and then a miracle occurs that simply transcends the capability of science and reason to explain.  I suppose spitting in the dust, and using the resultant mud to cure lifelong blindness is one of the latter.  But I have discovered that far more often miracles CAN be explained by both science and reason.  It’s the fortuitousness of the occurrence that makes it a miracle and that proves to me God’s hand is involved.

Yes, I’d love a BIG miracle.  An army of angels setting up camp in my front yard would be nice.  The sudden appearance of a ton (as in specifically 2000 pounds – 32,000 ounces) of gold in my living room would be mighty nice, too.  Perhaps coming home to discover that a brand spanking new house has miraculously appeared where my 1910 Bungalow now stands… yeah, pretty awesome.  An overnight breakout of world-wide peace and the sudden end of all drought, resulting in the complete end of world hunger, coupled with the immediate disappearance of all forms of disease – those would be even BETTER “Big” miracles.

But, that’s really not how life generally happens, is it?  It’s the sudden appearance of $800 when $800 is needed, even though it comes from a totally mundane and easily explained source…. Those are the kind of miracles I tend to expect.  God never seems to let us down.

Thank you God!

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December 02nd, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

As we enter the 11th month without a job, Scott and I have started to look at how we can reduce expenses.  Over the past year we’ve slowly been cutting our expenses, buying less, taking time to evaluate need versus nice to haves, that kind of thing.  But now it’s time to roll up our sleeves and knuckle down to cost cutting where possible.

The first thing we looked at was our utilities.  There really isn’t a lot of savings to be had in the water/sanitation department.  Sanitation is a fixed rate for all residents of the city, anyhow.  Water we’ll work on, but we don’t expect a huge saving there either.  We’ll be more careful to see to it that the dishwasher is totally full before washing.  Same for laundry.  We’ll pay on time (if we pay by a given date each month, we save about 10%).  But again… our water bill is only about $25 a month.

The electric bill was the next to be evaluated.  Over the past 3 years, we’ve been converting all our lights to the newer style fluorescent bulbs that are supposed to last longer and use far less electricity.  We’ll keep that up, even though the bulbs are a lot more expensive… they last longer so it evens out.  About all we can do here is to recommit to making sure no lights are left on when we are not in the room.  Frankly I’m the worst offender here.  Lights on the main floor and upstairs are no problem.  I’m very good at turning those off when I leave a room.  But the basement is a different story.  I go down there for a purpose… namely, to do laundry or get a tool.  When I come back up, my hands are usually full.  The light by the washing area frequently gets left on all day.  Once upstairs it’s easy to forget it’s on.  No more.  I’m going to make a huge effort to get those turned off.  I’m thinking about getting one of those motion sensor switches.  It’ll turn the lights on automatically as I head downstairs, then after 15 or 30 minutes will shut them off.  It’s worth looking into.

The gas bill was next.  This will be a little easier to cut down.  We’ve traditionally kept the thermostat set at 73 to 74 in the winter.  Because of Gary’s issues, we’ve liked to keep the house a little warmer, and frankly, I enjoy it warmer too, in winter.  But not now.  We’ve set the thermostat to 68 for December.  When January hits, I may well drop it down to 66.  In turn, we bought Gary a warmer comforter for his bed… well, HE bought the warmer comforter.  We gave him our electric heater from the camper, but have asked him to only use it when it gets too cold for him.  I’ve committed to washing our clothes in cold water, only using hot or warm for certain loads.  We hope to see the greatest savings in the gas department.

Next we hit the Cox Cable bill.  Cox provides our TV, Internet and telephone.  We turned off our land line.  Saved something around $35 per month.  We cancelled HBO, Showtime & Cinemax.  Another $25.  And we’ve had two old converters setting around for far too long which will save another $10.

Verizon was next, our cell phone carrier.  I had hoped to drop the data service, and just use our Blackberries as phones, but Verizon won’t let us.  We would have to turn them in and get new, less functional phones.  I use my blackberry for a lot… calendar, notes, info on Dad, and a heck of a lot more.  But I did turn off the annoying “Voice2Text” feature that converted all my voice mail into text messages.  If the caller had good enunciation, that was great.  But it had to be impeccable enunciation!  I’d get messages like “Sky Derrick hits Marlborough. Can you come church the cow broken. (???) chairs charity (???)”

That translated to: “Hi Eric, it’s Carla.  Can you come to the church now?  One of our vendors spilled tar on the stairs, and they’re dirty.  They need to be cleaned.”  And just so you know, Carla has pretty good enunciation! 

We also cancelled the insurance on the two phones.  So we’ll end up saving maybe $25 there.

Finally, we took a look at our grocery and dining out expenses.  Oh, my goodness.  When I look at the trends over the past 11 months in groceries and restaurants, it’s hard for me to see how I’ve lost weight (a good thing, of course) or how everyone else has stayed thin!  We actually spent over $1000 in one month, though most months were down around $700.  For three people.  That’s just ridiculous.  Over all, in the past 10 months, we averaged $23 a day in combined groceries and eating out.  We set a budget of $70 a week for all three of us.  Hopefully we can stay with that!

One of the reasons for high grocery bills for us was we bought groceries daily for that night’s dinner.  And Scott has LOTS of meetings at church, so we tend to eat BAD food on those nights.  No more.  We’re shopping for 2 weeks at a time, now, and Scott gets to take leftovers on days he is going to be home late.  Our first shopping trip on the new plan, for food for next two weeks, we did quite well!  $105 for the two weeks.  How it turns out, however, remains to be seen.  I imagine we’ll need to supplement here and there (we’re already out of milk, and running low on bread.)  Still $35 for two weeks of incidentals ought to do it.

And then… our austerity program comes crashing down.  Like a house of cards, one of the bottom cards gets pulled out, and WHOOSH!  The whole thing collapses.

This week we had to do a bunch of vehicle servicing.  The camper needed winterizing.  That was expected (and actually budgeted for).  The pickup needed an oil change… that’s okay.  Today, it’s the Buick’s turn.  It also needs an oil change… in fact it’s way overdue (2+ months overdue).  That’s okay.  Still within our new budget guidelines.  Then, they drop the hammer.  Over the past month, we’ve noticed the brakes were deteriorating… they were mushy.  When we stepped on the brakes at anything over 35 miles an hour they… I don’t know how to describe it, really… they pushed back… They’re anti-lock brakes and you could REALLY feel the pulsing of the brakes.  We never had problems stopping… but it just was rough.

And that’s because both the front AND the rear brakes are completely shot.  Rotors are all but gone.  We need NEW rotors, new brakes.  Not counting the oil (and air filter) service, we’re facing over $600 of brake work.

So, December ain’t gonna be so austere, after all… well, actually, yes, it WILL be austere.  But not cheap.

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November 30th, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

It’s been a good Thanksgiving Weekend. 

Thursday morning, I made up three batches of Rum Balls for a Christmas Party Scott and I are having next month.  I think I was beginning to get drunk just from inhaling the fumes!  I finished with just enough time to shower then head over to Dad’s to pick him up for the family Thanksgiving at my cousin’s home.  On the way we stopped to see a friend who had borrowed our air compressor and nailers.

The dinner itself was fun, Missy, Jim, Uncle Lyle, David & Sylvia, along with Andrew & Scott & Becka (Andrew & Scott are Lyle’s grandsons, Beck is Scott’s wife) and Scott & I… oh, and Scott & Becka’s three children.  It’s so funny to gather with the Stroms… every single one of them looks cut from the same mold… the Kelly side of that family has pretty strong genes.  One look at one of the great grand kids, the grand kids, or any of the Strom kids and you just KNOW they came from the Kellys!

Friday & Saturday, Scott and I knuckled down to finish some long standing projects around the house, and to putting up the exterior Christmas decorations… good thing, as Sunday it started getting cold!

Sunday we put in our normal 5 hour stint at church, then stopped on our way home for our traditional breakfast at Village Inn.  And it is from that meal that the title of this entry hails.  As we were walking toward the cash register I glanced at the bill… OH MY GOODNESS!  Our waitress gave us BOTH a senior citizens discount!!!!!!  Village Inn’s “Senior Citizen’s discount” is for those aged 60 and older!

So, for all you out there who read my blog… go buy stock in Nivea!  Because I intend to sleep in a pool of Nivea skin moisturizer starting tonight!

60.  Ha!  I’ll show her!

(And our waitress, just so you know, wasn’t a high schooler, either, she was at least our age!!!!)  Maybe I should just credit to her as an attempt to be nice?

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November 04th, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

An Idea, an idea… my kingdom for an idea!

That’s what these past two months of silence have been like.  I mean, sure I’ve been doing lots of stuff… but none of it has seemed to be something I want to write about.  This past week, I’ve opened my “Live Writer” every day.  And every night I close it, nothing written.

It just seems that nothing has been weighing on me, or inspiring me to write about it. 

Over the past two months, since I blogged last, I’ve been on the run.  Of course, I’ve been to interviews… no luck.  I’ve been to Scottsdale for a wonderful family reunion.  I’ve developed a system for actually keeping the Hays-Strom household clean… something rather remarkable in and of itself!

But none of that says to me “Sit down and write about this.”  In deed, what’s being written right now is an attempt to jump-start my creative juices.  And I’m going to be NEEDING those creative juices! 

After a recent email to my family filling them in on my life, my job search, and Dad’s health, my aunt wrote me to tell me that she felt I wrote the most wonderful letters.  And she suggested I take a writing course.  And I jumped at the idea.  I start next Wednesday.  (And here’s a public THANK YOU Aunt Jeanie, for not only complimenting my writing, but making the suggestion AND then, topping it all off by paying for it!  You’re a very special lady, and I really really hope you know that.)

“A Writer’s Guide to Descriptive Settings” is the class I’ll be taking.  If it goes well, I may very well invest in another class.

My writing has taken me in some rather exciting directions.  Elsewhere out there in the “blogosphere”, a wonderful lady, a published author, whom I met online through conversations with a mutual friend, picked up an article I wrote some months ago and published it.  Another blogger in England picked up the piece from her and posted it with commentary.  A very lively conversation ensued between the 3 of us and several  other people.  One of those has even suggested I write a book!  Right now, that seems a bit unlikely to me.  But who knows?

I’m reticent to post that article here, or even tell my readers (all those thousands and thousands of you out there) where to find it elsewhere.  I’ll have to think about that.

September 08th, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

It’s been a little too long since I posted last.  There’s really no reason.  I just haven’t felt too much like posting!

Throughout the summer, I’ve been working on trying to find a new job.  Of course, I’ve also had a little health concern, but it turned out to be pretty minor.  At the time, though it was extremely scary!  In July, I had an episode of pericarditis that was extremely painful, and sent me to the ER to find out what was going on.

Then, of course, was the trip to Wyoming for Rendezvous which I wrote about in 6 postings early in August.  Late August, everyone in the family had a run-in with the summer cold, but that too is pretty well over and done with.

This past weekend, the Labor Day weekend, Scott and I joined 2 of our best friends, Royal and Jonathan, for a camping excursion.  We were joined by two other men, friends of Royal and Jonathan.  I’d like to hope that now they’re our friends as well. 

We picked a local state park, actually the Louisville State Recreation Area down along the shores of the Platte River, in Louisville, Nebraska.  The park was packed, as you’d expect over the Labor Day Weekend.  There are at least 255 campsites at this park, most of which are for RVs.  We chose to leave the trailer in storage and do a little old fashioned tent camping in one of the tent restrictive sites.  Scott and I guessed that there were probably over 1000 people camping.

We set up our compound  over two sites; our compound consisted of our three tents and a dining fly.  Most of the weekend was spent sitting around the campfire.  James and Phillip did a bit of fishing and bike riding.  Royal retreated to his tent periodically to do some reading.  Jonathan jogged, or tended the fire, or swam.  Scott and I just sat around, either napping or chatting.

Other friends came down to visit from time to time, Carla & Sharon, Frank & Kent – with Frank’s Mom.  Marcus came for a visit, as did Michael. 

It was a nice, lazy way to spend the weekend, just reconnecting, somewhat, with nature.  I didn’t take any pictures, but I’ll bet the others did.  I’ll see if I can’t update this blog later with some of those photos!

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August 10th, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

Sunday, August 9, 2009.  Yesterday after our visit to the Cheyenne Public Library, Scott and I drove around Cheyenne for a while, seeking out a grocery store to pick up a few things we needed for this morning’s breakfast, then topped off the tank and returned to our campsite.  We were gone a lot longer than we anticipated we would be, partially because we also needed to stop up at the Happy Jack Rd. rest area for more water.  The pump up there is pretty slow… it took nearly 5 minutes each to fill our two 6 gallon water jugs.  We started filling the 20 gallon water bladder, but that was going to take so long that we decided against it.  As it turned out we really didn’t need it!

Back at camp, Tom was just finishing cello practice.  Ray was off partying.  The girls were… up to something, not sure what, but they were away from their campsite.  Scott marinated the steak, and I am not really sure what I did!

Dinner of fajitas & wine was magnificent!  Then, Tom took off to find the parties while Scott and I cleaned up and then enjoyed a little quiet time at the trailer.

This morning, we were up by 7:00 and started breaking camp.  The ladies showed up at 9:45 after breaking their site down, and loading their trailer.  As has been the norm, we had a delightful breakfast… Ray cooked omelets.  (Hmmm… that’s how spell checker said to spell it, but it doesn’t quite look right to me!)… and Tom fried up some more bacon.

We did have a bit of an alarm cooking… Tom was also going to make raisin toast, but all the electric shut down when he plugged in the toaster.  We hunted through all the fuses and the GFCI trying to find out what went wrong.  It turns out the generator overloaded and stopped functioning.  We had to power it off, then restart it to get electricity flowing again… by which time, Tom had toasted the raisin bread on the grill… MMMmmmmm!

By noon we were on the road after once again experiencing a little problem… the stabilizer pins were NO WHERE to be found!

It’s now 1:55 Mountain Time, and we’re just inside Nebraska.  It doesn’t look like we’ll be home tonight.  So we’ll probably just stop for the night around Grand Island.  I’ll post this then!

UPDATE: Well, we decided to tough it out, and drove on to Council Bluffs.  We got home this morning at 12:30 a.m.  Now, we have to go get the camper from the parking lot at the corner and take it to the storage site!

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August 08th, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

Saturday, August 8, 2009.  Wow, I can’t believe it is already Saturday!  Rendezvous is almost over!  How can that be?  We only got here a few hours ago, it seems!  On the other hand, it must have been longer ago than that, I’m exhausted!

This morning, the ladies came up around 8:30 or a little later.  Scott and I cooked breakfast this morning… scrambled eggs, sausage and potatos.  We didn’t spend as long a time chatting today as we all had to be at camp central for the worship service that MCC Omaha puts on here.  Frankly, I didn’t think it was too well attended.  Certainly not as well as last year.  But we did a great job!  The 8 of us from MCC Omaha were joined by maybe a half dozen from MCC Family In Christ, from Fort Collins, Colorado.

As soon as the service was over, Scott and I drove in to Cheyenne to find a WI-FI spot so that he could take his final exams.  We’re sitting in the Cheyenne public library right now… which is the only reason we are able to post these blog entries!

Once we’re done here, we’re off to get water for the trailer… we’ve run out! 

Watch back late Sunday or perhaps Monday for the final posts on Rendezvous.  There are a number of factors that may impact our ability to get home on Sunday.  So don’t be concerned if we’re not home until mid Monday!

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August 08th, 2009 | Author: Eric Hays-Strom

Friday, August 7, 2009.  The people really started arriving today, and the site is filling up.  Though the overall count is still going to probably be less than previous years.  There’s a “competing” campout down in Colorado earlier in the summer.  From what I hear, it’s not something I’d want to go to.

Once again, the ladies came up to cook breakfast (Juline and Cindy, this time – it’s our turn tomorrow.)  We had a delightful meal, then sat around outside chatting until nearly noon. 

About 1 p.m., Scott and I and the ladies (you know, it get’s tiring typing all 4 names so often, so I just refer to them as ‘the ladies’) joined several other people for a drive over to North Crow Reservoir and went canoeing for a few hours.  We spent a lazy afternoon enjoying the sun – and getting roasted – and the water and good camaraderie.  Around 5 we headed back to camp.

Ray’s not feeling the best, so he spent the day napping, and Tom spent the day visiting friends campsites.

After dinner, it was time to head down to camp central for the evening program.  There was the usual “Cinderfella” skit, and then the highlight of the evening began.  Susie’s concert went fabulously.  She’s really loved here at Rendezvous, and is considered a highlight of the week.  We’re just proud she’s one of US!  She had a little “heckling” from the audience, but she disarmed it really well.  Heckling isn’t exactly the word, I’m not sure what is.  The young man had a bit too much to drink and wanted to be her backup dancer.  So, she let him come up and dance for one of the songs.  It was really cute.  And so was the dancer!

Scott and I were in bed by 10 p.m.  And another day ends.

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